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Although your newborn seems so delicate, don’t be afraid to start a massaging routine shortly after birth. Routinely giving your baby a massage helps you grow your bond and leads to his happy, healthy development.

Touch is a powerful way to communicate your love to your baby. In fact, 25-120 minutes of skin-on-skin contact immediately after birth can positively affect interactions between you and your little one up to a year later!

In the first few weeks, use slow and positive strokes, not spending too much time on one area. Newborn babies may find their senses over-stimulated and most will seek solace in the arms of their parents for the first few weeks and some may just want a gentle stroke down their backs, over their clothes.

Massage Resting Hands

Resting Hands

If your baby says “yes” to massage, begin with a resting hand. This resting hand technique is used before massaging any body area. It can also be used when your baby needs a break during the massage. This is a good way for your baby to feel secure and enjoy touch.


Massage Legs

Legs

Check you have enough oil on your hands before you start. Begin on the legs with a newborn because it is an area that is usually accepted by babies. Downward strokes are more relaxing.

Legs - Milking

With one hand, gently hold your baby’s ankle. Place your other hand at the top of your baby’s thigh, molding it around the leg, then slide it to the ankle. Repeat with firm yet gentle rhythmic strokes, one hand after the other.


Massage Feet

Feet

Babies usually love having their feet massaged. Watch your baby’s reactions in case of sensitivity. Giving your baby a little foot massage can have a positive effect on the whole body.

Gently squeeze and roll each toe between your thumb and index finger. Using alternate thumbs stroke the top of the foot from toes to the ankle. Repeat several times.


Massage Tummy

Tummy

When your baby’s umbilical cord is healed, a gentle massage on the tummy can help with digestion and tummy troubles.

Start by making contact with your baby’s tummy with a reassuring relaxed hand. If your baby is happy, make gentle paddling strokes, with one hand following the other.


Massage Back

Back

Skin-to-skin contact can enhance the bonding experience between baby, mom and dad.

Holding your baby close to your chest, massage your baby’s back beginning at the neck, swooping down to his bottom.

Through massage, you can gain increased awareness of how your baby communicates and ideas on ways to support your baby in his first few months. You and your baby will discover what is best for you both. It is important to be mindful that massage is something you do with, rather than to, your baby.

These massage strokes are based on INFANT MASSAGE: A Handbook for Loving Parents by Vimala McClure, the founder of the IAIM.

The IAIM is a non-profit organization and does not endorse any product.

Postnatal Depression and Using Touch to Communicate and Bond

After the birth of their baby, many mothers and some fathers may suffer from some form of depression. ‘Baby Blues’ is common and can leave mom feeling elated one moment and very emotional the next. This usually disappears after a few days. Depression is a more serious and longer lasting condition and can show signs anytime from straight after the baby’s birth or later.

Research into postnatal depression shows that massage can enhance parent and baby attachment, through encouraging eye contact, skin contact, voice and sensitive interaction.

Join a Baby Massage Group

It is recommended that you learn more from someone with a qualification in infant massage to gain the full benefit. Going to a baby massage group is an ideal way to learn to massage your baby safely.

The International Association of Infant Massage (IAIM) has been instructing parents around the world for over 25 years. For more information, go to www.iaim.net.

Bonding Through Massage

Show him how much you care using your baby’s first language — touch

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Maybe you’ve bonded and maybe you’re waiting for the magic to kick in. Either way, breathe easy and check out the primer on newborn bonding from BabyCenter®.

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